After baby is born, the life with the basiccest lack provides for oneself ability, lie for a long time of the mother attend below, meet those who form pair of mothers depend on necessarily. Be brought up every day as darling, the development that psychological function had advance rapidly (can stand like the darling inside one full year of life, can play, can articulate, can walk, wanted to interact with the person) , its oneself is preliminary already had understanding rich and colorful the postulate of external environment. If protect darling overly,grow up at this moment, make its long-term confine is beside the mother, the stimulation of evasive outside ambient, with respect to the dependence of can aggravating darling to mom, psychology, intellective to its development generation is inactive with bad influence. Accordingly, the grow upping answers from proceed with of the following respects, the darling that helps left and right sides of one full year of life overcomes the dependence to mom stage by stage.
1, protective darling lies the independent character of budding condition. The darling that one full year of life controls, had the base that the movement expands, in the action, regular meeting shows the desire of a kind of independent activity. If darling does not wish to strand,be in baby carrier or on small bed, and aux would rather faltering move is outdoor activity. Be like again, do not wish to let others feed a meal, do not be willing to be held in the arms to be worn by others etc. The tendency of this kind of independent character of darling, be a kind active up element. Parents ought to cherish this kind of independent intent, give in time guide and encourage, if use the speech, expression, movement praise that shows pair of darling independent character, cuddle cuddle darling, praise darling, with this drive darling more bold and independent ground is explored, and because be afraid that its are flyblown,do not want the dress or drop fall, and interpose or the independent action that restrict the child.
2, the education that values independent character. In daily life, the adult should take help darling seriously to have the activity of in one's power, develop its independent character in order to consolidate. Do mom must not because darling age is small, ability is weak, monopolize with respect to at every turn replace, such meetings are aggravating its depend on psychology. Should encourage him darling more at ordinary times study has a meal, drink water, take alone put a toy, study helps mom take bit of dot to wait, the means that mom uses his to be able to understand gives in time affirm and praise, if be kissed ardently, touch the child, embrace the child gladly to wait closely. Promote the development of darling movement with this, make its independent character gets consolidate and developing further. Anyhow, the darling that one full year of life controls, lying independence and the period that depend on psychology to coexist, the adult should be child creation and the opportunity that offer independent activity more, guide its to develop to the direction of independent character, overcome the child dependence to the mother stage by stage.
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